my boyfriend left to california to work and said he'll be back, i live in texas ,my question is : is he really coming back and when; and did he really went to work or did he have other motives
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Sunday, November 1, 2009 22:30 PST
florari,
He'll be back. He really wasn't happy with his job or where he was living. The only thing keeping him there was you. Having said "he'll be back" I think you just might consider picking up and folllowing him actually, rather than waiting for him to do so. Please put that insecurity away, and don't think that just because you've been shafted by others in the past, this fellow is shafting you. He's a very focused man and one who can be a bit single minded, which can make someone like yourself feel a bit left behind or left out. I bet he hasn't been contacting you all that much since he left? Don't worry. I get that he believes talk is cheap and isn't really into constant contact. Is he someone who calls about once a week or so and who'll talk to you for quite a long time when he does? Well, that's better than those sh*tty texts which really achieve little but tired fingers and a whole lot of misspelling :)
Just hang in there. This fellow really needed to get away from where he was, not from who he was with. But I think this leaves you with a big decision really: do you follow him, or sit and wait?
Hope this makes sense. GOOD LUCK xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Monday, November 2, 2009 21:43 PST
thank you cris1962, you are so right, about every thing. he is the type that gets depressed about being away from family, not having work, i never met anyone before like him that can't be without work cause he feels useless.
Monday, November 2, 2009 21:51 PST
hey cris1962,
do you think you might have the time to do a reading for me, as well? i recently had one done for me (which was very nice of him), but i don't want to bombard him with more and more questions (i can ask a lot, lol), and it's nice to get others opinions...basically, i've been in a very confusing relationship w/a guy (dob 7/13/1982), who seems to send me mixed signals all the time about how he feels about me. my dob is 8/30/88, btw. not only this, but he's taken so long to commit to me, and like a cancer he will often disappear for long stretches at a time. when we were first getting to know each other for the first few months we had such a strong attraction and we really clicked. then things kind of soured when his ex (dob 12/5/80) got involved and tried to win him back. now i feel as if he is torn b/t us two, but i'm not sure...basically, i want to know what do you see about this situation? i've been told to move on from him, and i've tried but for some reason it's been more difficult than in any other situation...why is this? was there ever really anything b/t us or was i just led on? i've been focusing on other things lately as always, but i want to know if i just need to move on...do you see any hope for me and this guy at all?
well, i certainly hope to hear from you. i think anyone who gives readings on here to people who are confused like me are wonderful. so thanks in advance if you're able to do so :)
Monday, November 2, 2009 22:42 PST
lf245706, how are you? I know you asked cris1962, but she always gets bombarded with requests. Maybe I can help. Maybe she can still help, I can't speak for her. But I can say I read your situation and think that you do need to move on. I think that there was something there, a connection, chemistry, a spark, but he had more so with this other woman. Not to mention you are six years younger than him and she is two years older than him. I also think he saw how available you make yourself and took advantage of it. Though it this is a hard time, know that you don't need a man who is unsure of his feelings, when it comes to love, you just know. Especially when there aren't any children and financial situations involved. It may feel a little bit painful now but know you will meet many new people and eventually someone will come into your life that gives you 100% respect. Think of this as a lesson learned, better now than later, or never.
Universal Harmony
Tuesday, November 3, 2009 7:29 PST
It looks pretty postive, and it looks like you'll here from him soon. it also seems he did go to work as i got the 3 pentacles with the king of pentacles.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009 8:14 PST
there is this guy , i think i like him but am not really sure . at times he acts like he has a crush on me. well i want to know whether he really likes me and is just scared of asking me out.his name is jarett merritt.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009 8:18 PST
i dont know his date of birth. well my birth name is doroth nakalunda and date of birth is 1 october 1993.can someone pliz do a reading for me. i will be so appreciative.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009 12:08 PST
There is definitly potential, but you might find it difficult at times and theres something you'll need to work through. He might not be being completely genuine with you either, so id watch out for that as well.
Good luck though and let me know what happens.
