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Psychic » Old Friend - New Distraction Help


Tuesday, November 3, 2009 19:45 PST

Hi All,

I did something today that I try not to do. I googled someone who used to be a good friend of mine. He and I were good friends and sometimes I think he felt more but never said. We spent a decade of our lives sharing our life experiences with each othr and he'd come to mean a lot to me. He even promised me if I wasn't married by the time I was 30 he'd marry me. Lol.
Anyway he found someone years ago and they got engaged. I knew that was the beginning of the end of our relationship but I respected that. The day he moved in with his new family he called me and left me a message on my voicemail and I deleted it. I really didn't want to know at the time what he had to say. And I've always regretted it not listening to his last words so to speak.
I found a picture of him at a festival and one look at him and I felt...serene. I miss him but I know I would be contacting him for selfish reasons that really served no purpose. And I also wonder why I am doing this. The person in my life now, sometimes I want to be closer to him, sometimes I was to run. We have so many things in common, etc. that it's scary sometimes. There is a certain city I'd like to visit. I've always been drawn to it. I've said for years that I am supposed to go there and fulfill some unknown destiny. When I met the current person in my life, found out he was from that city. And there are too many other eery things to mention that almost make me want to cry.
I guess I want insight as to why this old friend of mine popped into my head. I wonder if he did feel real love for me. And why think of him now?
Any insight would be greatly appreciated.

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Tuesday, November 3, 2009 20:44 PST

Wow. you could be me. I've had a very similar experience. I believe that when someone pops in your head like that, they are either thinking of you or something big has happened in their life. Maybe they have been married, divorced, injured...I even had a dream about my ex the night he died and couldn't stop thinking of him for a whole week before finally contacting a family member who told me about his death. That last experience has made me a firm believer that we are all connected and our souls do communicate with each other, even if we are not in contact anymore. I would never call myself psychic by any means so take this with a grain of salt but my gut feeling after reading what you wrote is that for whatever reason, your friend is thinking of you a lot. I also think that he did love you because of the fact that he cared enough to call you before he got married. Someone who didn't really care would not go through the effort to explain things. Maybe he is thinking of you now as the one who got away? Or, maybe he just misses you? Sounds like you and the person you are currently with have a pretty strong connection too! I definitely understand that desire to contact an old flame or good friend. There are a few people from my past who I would love to reconnect with but it would be opening a can of worms as they are married or have moved on. Sometimes, it is best to leave those memories as memories. Well, that is my gut reaction anyway. I'll be interested to see what others have to say too.